AIDS PREVENTION PRO

Relax boy! Only the extremity of your penis and your anus are able to catch enough viruses that you may become infected! If the break is located at trunk of your penis, the extremity is still protected of your partner's viruses (now, in Thailand, we must suppose that any partner is positive until we have the proof of the opposite!).

What if the upper part of the condom broke? Mmmm. Yes, this may be a bit more risky but not so much because the exposed surface for viral exchange is not large enough.

What? A big tear? All the upper part of your penis was exposed? But then I suppose you could fell it immediately!

It means that the extremity of your penis was just a few seconds in contact with dangerous surrounding.

Relax boy! Just wash your penis and wear a new condom; you can continue your intercourse.

Please note that dryness creates more frictions which can tear a condom. To prevent this problem, you should have enough lubrication (natural secretions, water-based lubricant like "KY", or even saliva.)

When did you realised the break: before or after his orgasm? Before the orgasm? Read up and relax!. Even a big tear is not really dangerous if he realized it directly! He did not realize it directly? Well I hope the contact was not too long time. I suggest you to stop the relation in view to avoid more local irritation and make a soft internal washing of your cavity.

In future, you should be more careful with such immature guy. It was so easy for him to see the break (supposing that he really did not feel it!). Of course, you should ALWAYS arrange enough light during the intercourse to see it!

He had orgasm already? .and you feel that some of his sperm entered into your body!?! That's a real danger! Wash directly your vaginal cavity with a LONG stream (flush) of water or any other not irritating disinfectant (you must avoid irritation because it can facilitate the penetration of viruses in your blood!).

After that, go directly with your partner to an emergency department of a public hospital (it should be within few hours following the accident. later on, it become useless to do anything). After discussion with both of you, the doctor will probably give you some pills to take during 28 days. If you go alone, the doctor may probably refuse to help you because he may consider that it is a sign that your couple is too immature to deal with such dangerous and requiring treatment.

Go on for a HIV test in 3 months to know the final sentence! (The result of a test is not be reliable if you do not wait 3 months). And from today, at least, check regularly the condom during your intercourses and add some KY gel or your own saliva on it if you feel all is too dry!

Yes , my dear, you are right! Genital wounds definitely facilitate HIV transmission! It is true that it is better to avoid any intercourse if he or she has wound(s) or abnormal skin on the genital area but, by using a condom, the danger is really very little. Go together and consult a doctor tomorrow.

I got a red penis!!! Although I used a condom, my penis is itching!!! I will get AIDS!!!

Relax boy! If you had used the condom on the right time, your partner did not transmitted any disease to you. You probably are simply allergic to the liquid in which the condom was wrapped in.

Now you have some homework to do: go and buy different brands of condoms and try each of them in your bathroom. till you find the good label (by the way, try to read on the box the coating that gives you allergic problem. Usually it is a spermicidal fluid added in some condom brands only). Allergy to latex can also happen, but it is extremely rare! If you feel that the latex is the problem, go to see your doctor who can prescribe to you an anti-allergic drug.

It can happen. It is why many men fear to use condoms (but they of course do not like to admit it!). Here only we can make the difference between a "real" and a "fake" man: a "fake" man just rejects to use condoms to escape the challenge. YOU MUST ALWAYS refuse that such fake man penetrates your body!!!

A real man, knowing that such side effect of condoms can happen (and is totally reversible), will just accept the challenge. He will eventually speak about that with you before the intercourse and require your help in case of need. How to help? So easy!!! Just practice safe sex without penetration (lips & hands stimulations). till you can wear the condom on his penis! In fact, the real man will simply tell you what to do to help him because he is not afraid to speak in bed! In future, to avoid such "accident", it is recommended that the penetrated partner unrolls the condom on the penetrating penis .meaning that you should learn how to do that. "Real mature women know about that"!

Don't believe him! You can easily wear the most little condom on .your fist!!! A man, who complain that condoms are too little, is a men who do not have enough hard erections. And, of course, that makes extremely difficult to unroll the condom. How to solve the problem? Usually such men have too many sexual activities. They may be confused between "sexual obsession" and a "true sexual desire".

Your partner should reduce all sexual practices (including masturbation) before to meet you to increase his "true desire" and so, the condom will not be too little anymore. You can also learn how to wear a condom on a weak penis by visiting www.prevaids.com . It may not be the healthiest solution for him but at least you will not be in danger!

The extremity of penis, the vaginal area, the anus and wounds should never be in contact with the extremity of penis, the genital secretions, the blood and the wounds of a partner.

Some purists also suggest avoiding keeping genital secretions in the mouth or at least not to swallow them (the danger of HIV transmission is extremely low in such occurrence)

Condoms, abstinence or safe sex rules (see the table) are the best way to avoid HIV. Statistics proof that confidence in faithfulness is NOT a safe attitude. nor alcohol before intercourse!

Don't panic!